11 yr old brother got an official reprimand (warning) off the police?/?

he is 11 and he said he got annoyed so he %26amp; his friend kicked a car (left a dent in it,).. threw mud over it and also pulled off wcn wipers. Passers-by caught them in the act and they called the police. Police talked to me and to my dad and my brother is now getting an official reprimand. this is the second time i have had to deal with the police for him. he does everything worng and sometimes i just feel like our family would be a lot better without him. he has damaged our garden shed (broke the windows 5 times), he keeps the windows dirty by kicking a dirty football at them for hours, he plays football so much we have no grass left in our garden, he tried to dig up my dead hamster.. he swears alot.. has a filth girlfriend.. walks on the carpet with his dirty trainers on.. and breaks everything he gets his hands on, he has wiped his butt with a towel, peed in cups, broke his football net, broke his PSP, xbox 360, ps1, etc etc.. HELP?! HES THE BROTHER FROM.. wel i aint even gonna say!

11 yr old brother got an official reprimand (warning) off the police?/?
It sounds like he may have anger issues about something bad that happened in his life, and being unable to verbalize it, he is "acting out" instead. I'm not meaning to presume anything about him or your family, but a few typical examples would be parental divorce, death of a parent, or sexual molestation by an adult. It could be helpful to take him to a professional counselor who can induce him to talk about what's bothering him.
Reply:Oh my God. He's severely mentally ill.



Breaking, unburying pet, breaking windows, fecal towel, broken net, PSP.



Is he on drugs, or does he drink? If not, then his mental status has to be checked? Is he always angry, or mean, frustrated, and what kind of people does he hang around and how are his grades? Check this out, and refer to counselor, because a human being may get hurt.
Reply:He needs to be spanked. Have your mother and father rip into him. For his horrible behavior, he needs capital punishment. Make him pay for the car he damaged. He's too young to work, but he should have to work for your parents doing chores every day for $10 a week until he pays for the car. No rewards for doing things that he's expected to do, but consistent punishment every time he breaks the rules.
Reply:He needs help, he needs more attention. Spend some time with him. Do activities with him often. Take him bowling weekly. if those things fail try taking him to those youth meetings where you go to the morgue and see a dead body and they talk about what would happen to you if you continue to be bad.
Reply:I can't say how your household is, but your parents don't seem to be taking control of the situation. Unlike what the first poster said, spanking doesn't do sh**. It can definitely be more harmful than beneficial. The parents who spank only do it becuase they are not educated in any other way of teaching their child what is wrong.



Tell your parents they have to step up to the plate. I can't see a parent who would let this stuff go on. I am sure your folks are trying to deal with the situation, but it is too overwhelming for them. If your parents aren't enforcing serious consequences for these actions in an appropriate manner... than I don't know.



It is a REALLY complicated thing when a child goes out of control, but things can really be changed if the parents give proper guidance and provide punishment right after an action so it registers: don't do that!
Reply:Juvey hall is coming soon so dont worry,,you will have his room soon