Am i over-reacting?

Okay, well I’ve like this guy for about a year, maybe more and we’ve never had a relationship but we’ve been really good friends and we have unfinished business (he used to like me, and then i used to like him). So quite a bit of ST (sexual tension) overall. Then at my 16th birthday party one of my best friends (there’s a group of 4 of us) was discovered by my other friends making out with him on the floor of my garden shed. He had had nine beers and she doesn’t drink. I was really upset about it when I found out so I planned to talk to her when she told me for herself. Before I got a chance she had taken his number from my phone without asking and texted him. The next day I found out that he couldn’t remember a thing and if she hadn’t of texted him he wouldn’t even have realized he‘d got with someone. So I rang her after I found this out and spoke to her about how the whole thing upset me. She said she forgot about the fact that I liked him cz she was caught up in the moment. The next day she texted me telling me that she thought I should know that they were going on a date this coming Thursday. She used the excuse that I’ve got a boyfriend now so why should I care, but I know if it was the other way around ( which doesn’t bear thinking about) she would hate me. As a group we’ve always been so close and said hoe’s over bro’s. Am I wrong to be really upset about all this?

Am i over-reacting?
That was too long and boring for me to read the whole thing.



But if you are a girl, the answer to, "Am I over-reacting", is always "yes"!
Reply:In 5 years you wont even care about this. She's not going on this date by herself, he's going too. Might as well let them get it out the way now, so he'll know that she isn't the one. Everyone is entitled to what they want, never live your life wondering what if. You and your current boyfriend should go out and just have fun.
Reply:Yes because friends shouldn't date ex-boyfriends or those you've had a major crush on. To her credit, at least she's trying to be upfront with you in letting you they're dating. If they like each other and you're taken -- not much you really can say.
Reply:no you're not wrong
Reply:No. that't not fair at all. i would completely ignore her, bc (dont take it bad) but that is a true, slut. she had no reason for doing that. if that happened to me i would drop her, theres no point either. shes prolly thinking "ha, i got the dude and my best friend doesnt mind" well. if yo uare upset, you need to tell her. and him. and he most definately need to tell him. and work this whole situation out. because she isnt your true friend for that matter, no real friend would do that. Even if they were "caught up in the moment", never in a million years is that a true friendship. and i understand the whole bff situation but still. how does it make you feel? %26lt;%26lt;%26lt; makes me sound like Dr.Phil. (:



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